"Before I had a fairly irregular life. I did in Berlin in a WG Saxophonistin usual and was in a band. We have often late or were rehearsed at concerts. Most mornings, I only come home - my flatmate was on the way the university and I on the way to bed.
All this has changed since my friend and I have a half years ago have decided to get a child. Eight months ago our daughter Lena came to the world we now live threes in Munich. My friend had a job offer. I'm here with him withdrawn, so our family grow up together.
Why I'm in the middle of the course wanted to get a child? I had the feeling that everything seen to have experienced what I wanted. I thought to myself: 'Everything I still want to experience, is also with child. " Moreover, the timing gave me good fit: I have ten semesters medicine behind me and I'm apparently free. After the baby break, I must just make my Practical year, then I am ready.
Dear pregnant during their studies
In the profession, it would be difficult, to take a break and children. As a doctor you have a lot of overtime and feels the employer and colleagues committed. In the study'm just committed myself. As a student I have less and can afford my classes and homework-free categories.
The pregnancy has even brought benefits to me: When I intern in the gynecology was the women have me on the station seriously as my fellow students. For the patients, I was not only a medical student, but above all an expectant mother. That is why they have trusted me.
A month before Lena's birth, I interrupted my studies. At the moment I enjoy it to be at home and spend time with my daughter to spend. But I have also afraid to miss the connection.
Hardly kindergarten places in Munich
Once we have found a childcare, I will return to the university. Unfortunately, there are not many in Munich crèche places, and one day we can not afford. Perhaps I must therefore be longer than planned to wait until I can continue studying.
By Lena has totally changed my life. I have become much more reasonable: I go to sleep earlier and nutritional me healthier. Moreover, I do not drink more alcohol - that was a pretty big step. Sometimes I feel quite strange if I at concerts or parties'm the only one who does not drink. Then I notice: I am not more.
Nevertheless, I feel still young and enterprising. I guess Lena often and was with her in the summer at the Fête de la Musique. Previously, I have to concerts only to the music of thought - now I think first and foremost to my daughter. "
At blogsView ONLINE tell this weeks Four students why they have decided during their studies to get a child - and how it everyday between crib and auditorium cope.
Monday: Study with a child, now or never
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